Monday, July 26, 2010

The Law of the Garbage Truck

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How often do you let other people's nonsense change your mood? Do you let a bad driver, rude waiter, curt boss, or an insensitive employee ruin your day? However, the mark of a successful person is how quickly one can get back their focus on what's important.

David J.Pollay explains his story in this way...

Sixteen years ago I learned this lesson. I learned it in the bac
k of a New York City taxi cab. Here's what happened.

I hopped in a taxi, and we too
k off for Grand Central Station. We were driving in the right lane when, all of a sudden, a black car jumped out of a parking space right in front of us. My taxi driver slammed on his breaks, skidded, and missed the other car's back end by just inches!

The driver of the car, the guy who almost caused a big accident,
whipped his head around and he started yelling bad words at us. My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy. And I mean he was friendly. So, I said, "Why did you just do that? This guy almost ruined your car and sent us to the hospital!"

And this is when my taxi driver told me what I now call, "The Law of th
e Garbage Truck."

"Many people are like garbage trucks. They run around full of garbage, full of frustration, full of anger, and full of disappointment. As their garbage piles up, they need a place to dump it. And if you let them, they'll dump it on you. When someone wants to dump on you, don't take it personally. You just smile, wave, wish them well, and move on. You'll be happy you did."

I started thinking, how often do I let Garbage Trucks run right over me? And how often do I take their garbage and spread it to other people: at work, at home, on the streets? It was that day I said, "I'm not going to do it anymore."

Life's too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. Love the people who treat you right. Forget about the ones who don't. Believe that everything happens for a reason. Never let other people ruin your day again..
They just need a place to dump their garbage..... :)


Sunday, July 18, 2010

Maaf...

HasbiyAllah wa ni'mal wakiil.....

Kita tak boleh nak puaskan hati semua pihakkan...

Jangan risau... itulah kehidupan... Apa sahaja yang kita lakukan akan mendapat respons manusia... normallah tu...

Tenang wahai diri... Tenang... HasbiyAllah wa ni'mal wakiil....

Maafkan diri ini andai ada yang tak puas hati... Aku hanya manusia... buat silap, salah dan tak mampu untuk menggembirakan semua.... Maaf... Maaf... Maaf...

Belajar dari kesilapan wahai diri... Mungkin ada petunjuk dari Allah... Pelajaran dalam bentuk sindiran... Walau sakit, namun tabahlah diri... Allah tengah mengajar kita...

Be strong.... Always...